it's sadden with this our generation that's full of myopic people everywhere. When coming up as a child our society was well mannered with so much to look forward to in terms of respect, tradition, values and sociatal norms.
in my time as a child, I was grown-up in a society where child will see evil and say this's evil , let me not do it. my time was full of mannered and culture inhabitants.
simple fact was that, when we where out on the street and we happen to do evil or disrespect elders, we will be dealt by our society before our complain reaches our homes. the saddest thing is that when our complain reaches home, the punishment will double. thoes days everyone trains you, that's what I call society raise children.
In the other hand, this present generation has found itself in a confused state. The simple fact is, you will see children misbehaving in public and when society takes action by correct the mistakes of that child, that is when you would see all lawyers from different angles.
The problem is not the decision the society would take, but rather the respond of the child parents. when child do wrong these days in public it is overlooked simply because of the stance the parents of the child will take.
I want to categorically tell you that if you are the only one you child is listening to, your parenting is in shambles, caios and catersrophy. the simple fact is, as soon as your child is not with you society takes over, and because the now societal teachings are full of fake and decititful practices the child get quantum of these practices.
I want to end by saying our parenting need retrospective analysis if we should cautail this meance. I rest my case.
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